To be a good human

To be a good human being doesn't mean you don't make mistakes. It means you learn from the mistakes you have made and make an extra effort not to do them again. Then again if you continue to do them, they are no longer a mistake but a conscious action you choose to perform. You learn and grown as a person. You grow to be what you already know you don't want to be.

You Inspire Me....

You inspire me to stay true to myself
You inspire me to help others
You inspire me to talk about uncomfortable topics
You inspire me to look outside the box
You inspire me to take a chance
You inspire me to not always be an adult
You inspire me to want to succeed
You inspire me to not be alone
You inspire me to know my purpose in life
You inspire me to be more adventurous
You inspire me to feel the purpose of being loved
You inspire me.....

It's been a year...

It's been a year since I last posted. Wow, how time flies. So much as happened.

 Life throws you curve balls and it's up to you to catch them and throw them back. Many will test you. Many will want you to fail, but it's up to you to prove them wrong. Live life to the best of your ability. I mean the BEST of your ability, not what you are currently limiting yourself to.

Being with someone......

Being with someone who makes you happy and works hard in life is more important than being with someone who can give you anything and everything, yet doesn't treat you the way you should be treated. Pick those you choose to be with wisely. Be honest and choose those who are honest with you.

An Update

Hello everyone,

I just wanted to give you all an update on the process of my book. Check out the update here:

http://thepositiveside.webs.com/apps/blog/show/21470108-continuing-to-write

With love and light,

Stacy

Happy Thanksgiving

Wishing everyone a blessed day! 

Remember, you shouldn't just be thankful 

for everything in your life today, but if today is the 

first day, keep it up.

Are You To Lazy Too Change?

People who let their past control their lives will never be happy. People who live in their past will never be happy. People who let those from their past control their lives and control their future will never be happy. People who do stupid stuff and hurt others and BLAME their past and don't change it will never be happy because they don't WANT to change it. If you want to change you will. If you don't want to change then admit that you don't want to change and be honest, but don't give people a bulls**t line about people can not change because that's a lie.

I know a LOT of people that can and have changed. I am one of those people. If anyone should blame their their past on anything it's me but I don't because I'm not playing the victim to anything. I'm a survivor! I've gone through a lot of negative events in my life and I use that experience to help others, not as an excuse to be a bitch and be angry at the world. I have spent many years to myself doing a lot of soul searching and a lot of self growth and learned a LOT about me.

People who say they can not change either do not WANT to change or are to LAZY to change. Which one are you? If you want to change, then stop with the excuses and do it. This isn't directed at just one person, this is for anyone. It's easy to use your past as an excuse. It's also easy to judge someone for their past. It takes a stronger person to stand up, take responsibility for their actions and make the change to be a better person. It also takes a bigger person to not judge another human being. Remember, we all have a past and one day, you may also be judged for something you once did.